A bit of Drenanology

Today I am sharing a blog article that I thought was interesting...

Seduction: How to Love Your Man To Life

So, men are not lost. Men are lonely and one of the greatest, most powerful institutions of restoration for them is marriage and family. Their women stand at the pinnacle of their rescue. Their women can love them back to life because real men want nothing more than a reason to belong to something. So women, love him, like you have lost your mind. Cultivate an environment that breaks his soul and makes him collapse into your arms. Give him a touch that reminds him that life is not over yet. Look at him as though your life depends on his success. Get behind him, beside him, underneath him, and even above him when he needs to be pulled forward. But most of all, get inside of him. Follow the link to read more on loving your man to life:

http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2012/11/seduction-how-to-love-your-man-to-life/

A bit of Drenanology...Although the article is directed to the ladies, it is true for women as well. 

However...No matter how much you encourage, support and/or have his/her back...It still is NOT a guarantee that he/she will receive it and/or reciprocate it.  Instead...He/She pushes you away.  We can't continue to be there for a person who does NOT want us there.  But do NOT give up...There is someone who wants you and will appreciate all that you do.  Just because one person mistreat you and/or don't show appreciation for you does NOT mean that all women/men will.  So let's NOT stop showing love, encourage and support because of what someone else did. Just because the current or previous mate mistreated you does NOT mean that YOU should mistreat your current or next mate.   Sometimes God sends us a "wrong" mate just so we can recognize, receive and appreciate the RIGHT one!  Just KNOW the difference.  Let's keep TRUE love together and alive!

Peace and blessings....

Drena